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•  A female speaker in a saree may not feel confident in a conference where all are dressed up in western formals.
            •  A student belonging to a tribal community will not feel confident in a class presentation in his boarding school.


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                     uiz Bee        1.               factors will influence the personality of a person.

                                    2.               factors include our society and people around us.
                                    3. Good personal hygiene with a healthy physique boosts      in a person.





                    SELF-CONFIDENCE BUILDING TIPS

            Self-confidence shapes your thoughts, feelings and actions. When your self-confidence is low, you struggle in your
            relationships and at work, you don’t feel happy, you don’t cope well with stress and you probably lack energy and
            motivation. So let’s work on some tips that help a lot in building self-confidence:
            •  Get Rid of Negative Thoughts: Thinking about negative things is a dangerous habit. Try to get rid of the negative
              thoughts by trying to change the focus of your thoughts. Go out and play, dance, talk to your friends, take a nap,
              bake a cake— doing such kinds of activities will help you to drop negative thoughts.
            •  Think Positively: When there’s positivity in your thoughts, automatically it will show in your actions. Count your
              blessings, start your day on a positive note. Reboot your mind and body. That’s why every school day starts with a
              morning prayer. It helps to remove negative thoughts and adds positivity.
            •  Stay Happy with Little Things: Happiness always comes in small packages. Try to appreciate the smallest of things
              that you have and make the most of it. Show gratitude.
            •  Stay Clean and Hygienic: An individual’s personal hygiene is very important. It is one of the biggest reasons of
              acceptance or rejection by your peer group. It not only builds confidence in you, but it also keeps you healthy.
            •  Know Yourself: Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom. You are empowering yourself when you introspect.
              The better you know about yourself, the better is your relationship with the rest of the world.
            •  Set a Goal for Yourself: Dream enormously big and then work towards achieving your goals. True success is all about
              working towards meaningful goals and dreams. Goals need not be achieved always, but it leads you to move closer
              towards them.
            •  Use your Experience: Apart from academics, the only source of knowledge is experience. “Experience is the teacher
              of all things”.                                                                         —Julius Caesar.





                    REVISIT



                  ▶ Self-management is basically the ability to organise yourself with positive energy for the overall development
                  in professional, personal and social life.
                  ▶ Self-awareness is the awareness of your own personality.
                  ▶ Self-confidence is the trust in your own abilities, qualities and judgment.
                  ▶ Self-motivation is the force that drives you to do the things.
                  ▶ Self-control is the ability to manage your impulse, emotions and behavior.
                  ▶ Self-commitment is the state of being committed to yourself and being loyal to your actions.

                  ▶ Problem solving is an analytical skill that helps identifying a problem and finding a possible solution to it.



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