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Why is self-confidence important?”





                    STEPS FOR BUILDING SELF-CONFIDENCE

            Confidence helps you express the most beautiful version of yourself. A confident person is always focused in life and
            learns from his mistakes. If you compare yourself with others, you might struggle to concentrate and feel low in
            self-esteem. Instead of focusing on your work, you will be more worried about what others think of you. So let us now
            learn what steps we need to take to build our self-confidence:

            •  Focus on your achievement and learn from your failures: The first and the foremost step in building your confidence
              is to focus on your strengths. Let your failures inspire you to do better. In the games field, you will find sportspersons
              seeing the replay of their own performances so that they can improve on their game and correct their mistakes.
            •  Think of your abilities and strengths: A self-confident person always tries to sharpen on his strong points. Be aware
              of your abilities and strengths to overcome hurdles in your life.
            •  Develop a positive attitude: Remember that you can control your attitude. Try to introspect, if you face negative
              thoughts, turn it around to make it into a positive one. The saying of half empty and half-filled glass is an old one. As
              of today, the thought that we have glass and water should be good enough to make us feel positive.
            •  Set a goal for yourself: Always try to set an achievable goal for yourself. Think of something that you want to do and
              try to work towards it. Plan the steps you must take to realize your goals, it boosts up your confidence.
            •  Act confidently: It is a trait, all confident people possess. It is only you who can point out your mistakes. Your body
              language should show your confidence.



                    QUALITIES OF SELF-CONFIDENT PERSON

            Confidence comes with knowledge and attitude. It is an age-long process of knowing yourself. If you are aware of your
            tasks, there will be very less chances of failure and this force is big enough to motivate you. There are lots of other
            good qualities a self-confident person should possess to make his own identity in this world. Let us now study those
            qualities of a self-confident person:
            •  Hardworking: A hard working person is always more confident. He is aware of the fact that if nothing else, his hard
              work will be able to make him sail through the most difficult situation.

            •  Positive attitude: A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a
              catalyst and adds to the confidence of an individual.
            •  Self-belief: When we feel confident in ourselves, we are able to trust in our abilities, qualities and judgment. When
              you believe in yourself, you’re more confident to try new things.
            •  Committed: When you are committed to doing something, you accept no excuses, it’s only results. Your confidence
              level will automatically increase with your commitment.
            •  Focused: It’s only when you begin to focus, you transform, change and grow. If you stay focused, you will grow up
              to be a more confident person.
            •  Knows your strengths and weaknesses: Our strengths and weaknesses make our character. A confident person
              always focuses on his strengths and not on weaknesses.




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